Take your time. Your man’s cock isn’t a piece of meat, it’s a sensor. Caress it, give it the love and attention it deserves, make it feel good.
One of the things I like to do before enjoying my man’s meatsicle is to sit back and look at it, fantasize about it. Giving a blowjob is more than just pleasuring the man, or the feeling of having his cock in one’s mouth, it’s about the anatomy of a man and all it’s capable of.
In sitting back and fantasizing with it, one’s body and mind is given time to build one’s arousal level, and arousal is really what makes sex so exciting. Without arousal, the emphasis would be put entirely on the impending orgasm, which, come full circle, is about arousal. If one is not aroused, one cannot cum. But one’s failure/inability to cum isn’t necessarily indicative of them not being aroused, i.e. them not having a great time.
It’s at this point, when I’m sitting back and eyeing it, that my brain flashes photos in my mind of all the things I could do with it. Perhaps I could suck on it while hiding behind some bushes at the Atlanta Botanical Gardens, or maybe he will come from behind while I’m cooking and lift up my skirt to a pleasant surprise. The fantasies are yours and you can do with them what you wish.
Obviously you can’t just stare at it dreaming creepily; don’t just stare at it and drift off into your own world– tell your man what you’re thinking. Touch yourself in front of him and give him the opportunity to salivate and fantasize with you while you watch him. Share with him your fantasies. Get him involved.
A big fan of dirty talk, expressing your interest in sucking him off never hurt anyone. If it makes you wet to think about having his cock in your mouth, then tell him! There’s nothing hotter than being with somebody who you have no doubt in your mind wants you as bad you want them. And while sometimes people assume it’s implied simply with one’s presence, it’s always nice to hear how badly someone wants to bump bunnies with you.
With fantasizing and dirty talk now established, move in slowly and instead of just sticking his cock in your mouth, run your face against his balls. First slowly to the left of them, then slowly to the right. Get all the way below them and run your face from the rear end slowly up his balls and up his dick to the tip. Bury your face in his sack, take a deep breathe and inhale your man’s aroma. Take it all in. Kiss his sack, lick it. Maybe one long flat lick, followed by some shorter faster licks, or maybe sucking on them after taking in a mouthful. (When sucking his nuts, be careful about teeth!)
When doing any of this, don’t forget to give some feedback to your partner and let him know that you’re enjoying yourself. Whether it be extensive dirty talk, some lustful panting, moaning, or a brief “Fuck, baby, I can’t wait to choke on your cock.”
To be continued….
Comments
See now, I’d probably still be with my ex had the bitch read this and lived by it! Lord O’ Mighty!!!!
right on point supastar! nothin better than some good head!
See your the type of girl I need!
I’ve been in a relationship where I haven’t gotten head in two years! we get in constant fights about it what do i do?? (reading this article was basically torture)